I would like to know the opinion of norwegian men from age 30 to 45 (or 50) about women of "darker color", foreigners women or women from another culture, as you wish to call them.
I am a serious woman, well educated, intelligent and pretty from inside out. I made sure that my pictures and what i wrote in my profile don't give wrong signal or imaginations... So i don't understand how men will dare to offer me a "friends with benefits" or "not something serious" type of relationship.
Since this has happened many times on the net as well as on the real live in my interactions with men, i wonder if there's something wrong with me or it's true that norwegian men first see foreigners as women to play with while waiting for their ideal woman?
I wonder if there's something wrong with me because since i attract men who view me as "sexual friend" instead of the loved and respected girlfriend that i wish to be, the problem must lie in me and i wish to find it so that i could change it.
But to my surprise, while speaking to women with my background, i found out that we face the same issue. Mostly.
So my question is: "What is the view of norwegian men (age 30 to 45) about women of darker color? Do you first see us as girlfriend material or "knu..ekompiser"
I am genuinely interested in understanding the norwegian culture and i would like to know if i should give up dating norwegian men as i don't want to expose myself in "fated" disappointment by meeting dead end in relationship due to the fact the i am from another culture or race.
One can change a belief, an attitude, learn a new language, a new way of behaving but one can never change its origin. And if that's something that would be my "bad luck" in dating, i rather give up now. The heart is the source of my being and i don't want to expose it to unnecessary harm.
I hope you will be able to see the honesty in this post and you would be able to answer back in an intelligent and respectful way.
Thanks in advance. :-)
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