Off, høres vondt ut. Får meg til å tvile på om nettdating virkelig er tingen, er jo langt større sjanse for å mislykkes enn å lykkes. For her har du nok ikke truffet, du skal jo ikke finne deg i å bli lekt med over lengre tid.
Viktig å tenke på at ord på en skjerm mangler empati og mange er dårligere til å få frem følelser via ord og setninger enn andre. Ett smilefjes for en kan tolkes annerledes av en annen. Så om dere enda ikke har møttes, vil jeg vel si at det fremdeles er håp, men har dere møttes er nok tiden inne til å gå videre. Er da ett hav av sjarmerende menn her inne! Mange er garantert bedre enn han du gråter over nå! :)
Også er jo vi menn nokså fjerne av og til.. korttenkte og fokuserte, ofte på feil ting..
Tonight, I thought my husband was acting weird. We had made plans to meet at a bar to have a drink. I was shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late, but he made no comment on it.
Conversation wasn't flowing, so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed, but he didn't say much. I asked him what was wrong. He said, 'Nothing.' I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset. He said he wasn't upset, that it had nothing to do with me, and not to worry about it.
On the way home, I told him that I loved him. He smiled slightly, and kept driving. I can't explain his behavior. I don't know why he didn't say, 'I love you, too.' When we got home, I felt as if I had lost him completely, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there quietly, and watched TV.
He continued to seem distant and absent. Finally, with silence all around us, I decided to go to bed. About 15 minutes later, he came to bed. To my surprise, he responded to my caress, and we made love. But I still felt that he was distracted, and his thoughts were somewhere else. He fell asleep -I cried. I don't know what to do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life is a disaster.
His diary entry:
My motorcycle wouldn't start today, can't figure out why, but at least I got laid.